I’m thinking that sometimes you just have to make the decision to be happy. Just realize that things aren’t ever what you hoped they’d be. Not ever. For anybody. The only thing that separates one kind of person from another is that there are some who stay angry about it and there are some who accept what comes their way.
At some point, you’ve just got to jump. You’ve got to quit being scared of the “maybes” and “what-ifs” and just fucking jump. Quit cheating yourself out of the best thing that could ever happen to you, and just fall. Fall hard, fall long, and fall forever.
We like to pretend that high heels don’t hurt our feet, and that we always look as good as we do when we’re wearing make-up and our prettiest clothes. We like to tell ourselves that not every guy is the same, and that maybe he’ll change if we’re patient with whatever life throws our way. We hide behind smiles and mask ourselves in laughter while thinking maybe it’ll be enough to convince ourselves we’re really that happen; we tell ourselves we really need to be that happy. But sometimes, life isn’t okay, and it’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to hurt, and sometimes, we just need a reminder that we’re only human. And as miraculous of a blessing as that is, it can still break you down, leave a mess, shake you up, and confuse you until you don’t understand what it means anymore. You’re going to hurt, you’re going to fall, and you’re going to make mistakes that – sometimes – you even know better than to allow yourself to make. But that’s okay. Sometimes, you just need a reminder that it’ll all be okay; here’s your reminder, beautiful. Hold on for better days, keep that gorgeous smile where we can see it, because I can promise you things won’t always be this way.
Hope is a driving factor in helping us stay on course in life, it may feel as though it comes and goes, but in reality there is always hope, there is always a chance for something else to happen, and you need to have faith that it will.
For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.
The good times and the BAD TIMES both will pass. It will pass. It will get easier. But the fact that it will get easier does not mean that it doesn’t hurt now. And when people try to MINIMIZE YOUR OWN PAIN you’re doing yourself a disservice. Don’t do that. The truth is that it hurts because it’s real. It hurts because it mattered. And that’s an IMPORTANT THING to acknowledge to yourself. But that doesn’t mean that it won’t end. That it won’t get better. Because it will.
At some point, you`ve got to man up & jump. You`ve got to quit being scared of the “maybes” & “what-ifs” & just jump. Quit cheating yourself out of the best thing that could ever happen to you, quit cheating him out of what he`s wanted for so long, & just fall. Fall hard, fall long, & fall forever.
We waste too much time putting ourselves down, so much that we don’t ever stop to see that we are truly good enough. We spend too much time with our heads down and hearts closed, and never get a chance to look up from the ground and see that the sun is shining and tomorrow is another day.
Next time you’re stressed, take a step back, inhale and laugh. Remember who you are & why you are here. You’re never given anything in this world that you cannot handle. Be strong, be flexible, love yourself & love others. Always remember, just keep moving forward.
I wear my heart on my sleeve, but I’m not naive. I know what it feels like to be completely broken and I’m all too familiar with what it feels like to hurt. I know what it’s like to see something funny and not laugh. I’ve been taken advantage of and used. My feelings have been completely disregarded, but I still believe all people are good at heart, and my trust has not diminished. To be honest, I hope it never does.
There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.
I know it hurts. I know that. But if you give up now, you may be missing something greater than you could ever have imagined. & no one wants to miss something that will change their life forever. Just keep holding on, & I promise it’ll get better.
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength.
At some point, you’ve got to man up and jump. you’ve got to quit being scared of the “maybes” and “what-ifs” and just freaking jump. quit cheating yourself out of the best thing that could ever happen to you, quit cheating him out of what he’s wanted for so long, and just fall. fall hard, fall long, and fall forever.
just say what you mean and mean what you say. don’t expect someone to read your mind and don’t play games with heads or hearts. don’t tell half truths and expect trust when the full truth comes out. half truths are no better than lies. don’t be cold to someone you care about. indifference hurts more than angry words.
I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination. ( James Dean )
because sometimes you just feel tired. you feel weak, and when you feel weak, you feel like you just wanna give up. but you gotta search within yourself, try to find that inner strength and just pull that shit out of you and get that motivation to not give up and not be a quitter, no matter how bad you wanna just fall flat on your face and collapse
It’s impossible to live without failing at something unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all.
- J.K. Rowling
If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never get it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.
The harder you FALL
The higher you [[ Bounce ]]
Nothing is too high if you really
want to get there, nothing is too far
if you have the tools for the journey,
nothing is too long if you’re
willing to take the time.
Live your life and risk it all
take some chances, take the fall
take your time, no need to hurry
have some fun, and never worry
Every second brings a fresh beginning,
every hour holds a new promise,
every night our *dreams* can bring hope,
and every day is what you choose to make it.
* A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.
If you ever feel like you wanna die,
think of all those things that make you smile
&& Live for those things. =)
This isn’t a perfect world…people get hurt.
you smile when you feel like crying.
you act like your okay when your falling apart.
but you gotta let go and move on…
Because there’s nothing else you can do.
Turn you dreams into wishes,
Your wishes into goals,
Your goals into reality,
And your dreams will come true
Sometimes things happen & we cant help but cry
but when you feel you cant put up with it any longer
Just hold on because BELIEVE ME
–what doesn’t kill you, only makes you stronger.–
Not everything is going to be picture perfect…
things sometimes take time, and have many rough
things to go through before you can get there, but
if you give up on the things you want…everything
you’ve gone through ends up being worthless.
If i lose…I’ll walk away and never
feel bad because i did all i could,
[ and there was nothing more to do ]
There’s been a few times where i wanted to die…But you can’t give up,
even if all you do is cry. If they see they got to you, then they are going to
think they got you beat. Swallow your tears, stand up on your own two
feet, & show them that you aren’t giving up. No matter what.
There is always a solution for problems;
you just have to look in your <3 heart to find them.
Dance like no one’s watching
Love like you’ll never hurt,
Sing like no one’s listening
Live like it’s heaven on Earth.
Once you loose faith
you lose everything
The only way to see a rainbow is to look through the rain
Life’s a dance…you learn as you go,
sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow;
never worry about what you don’t know,
cause life’s a dance & you learn as you go
*Don’t be sad when you must say good-bye.
*A farewell is necessary before you can meet again.
I’ve learned to survive in life you
need to keep one thing in mind.
. . prepare for the worst .
. hope for the best .
The moment when you feel like giving up
just remember why you held on for so long.
Don’t wear a frown its never in style…
Just do your best to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE.
if you are feeling blue
just keep your faith alive
because you never know
what phenomenon could
.*take place in your life*.
Cry Your Heart Out, Let it go
After every tear comes a rainbow.
Each of us represents a star
Sometimes we shine with the
rest. Sometimes we twinkle*
alone and sometimes, when
we least expect it, we make
someone’s dreams come true.
Time is precious
and its slipping away
so cherish every moment
day after day
You have to go through the worst to get to the best
Shifting my life into -drive-
Getting out and kissing the past good*bye